My daughter Monique and her husband Frank now share our
home, and that's a good thing. We love their company although we don't often
see them. Between working at their jobs and working on their house, they are
always going somewhere. I tried to cheer her up by suggesting that at least
this very hectic time in their young marriage will cause her pregnancy to fly
by. She is less amused by that than she is by the early morning commentary
Frank and I provide as we discuss world events. She groans when we tell her we
are going to start our own show, and she doesn't even appreciate Frank's
suggestion of the title: Wake Up, America.
What Monique
does appreciate is spending more time with her niece, Adeline. As far as
Adeline is concerned, Monique and Frank are just two more people available to
spoil her. And two more voices to protest the enormous hair bows her mother,
Lauren, forces her to wear. Whether Adeline is going to church or to the zoo or
staying home with me, Lauren places a bow on her head.
Time must
have stood still for Lauren recently as she dressed Adeline for the day, then
called to me with a voice filled with urgency, "I can't find Adeline's
lime green bow!"
I wanted to
respond, "And there are people in Frenier who can't find their houses, others
who are forced to toss out everything they own, and children whose worlds have
changed overnight." Instead I just looked at Addi, who just sat there
smiling, perhaps at the thought of her first bowless day.
Lauren's
frustration over a lost bow was no match for what I've been feeling concerning
my community. The job of rebuilding seems enormous and I've found myself daily
burdened by the needs. Rather than compile a list of the things I am incapable
of doing to help, like installing sheetrock and laying ceramic tile, I've
decided to do the tiny things that I can. A little cleaning here, a little
cooking there, and in between it all, a whole lot of prayer. Even as I hold my
grandbaby on my lap, I move her bow to the side so I can see her smile as I
pray and ask God to form a healthy, prosperous future for us all. The promise
of Galatians 6:9 has never seemed more appropriate than now as I trust God to
reward all who labor now just for themselves, but for their friends and
neighbors in need. "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the
proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
P.S.
Lauren must have found that lime green bow. Sorry, Addi, I'll hide the next one
in a better spot
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