Regardless of our nationalities,
careers, or choice for president, there’s something we share – we all have a
birthday. My granddaughters not only have birthday parties every year, their
mothers also celebrate their half-birthdays. It’s a big deal for us to honor the
day someone was born.
Twenty-two
years ago, after almost a year of chemotherapy, I was advised to take it easy
because my body needed a couple of years to recover. Three months later I woke
up feeling like I was on chemotherapy, then realized that nausea could also
accompany pregnancy. A test later that morning confirmed that I was carrying my
fifth child.
“You
probably have access to all sorts of statistics and lists of terrible things
that could go wrong with this pregnancy,” I told the obstetrician on my first
visit. “I don’t want to know them. I believe this baby will be perfect and I’m
asking you to believe that with me.”
I
don’t know what he was thinking when he heard those words, but he immediately
prayed for me and for my baby. Other people told me how they were chided when
they gained too much weight. Not me. Nevertheless, I wanted to stay as healthy
as possible and tried to go for a long walk every day. In addition to tiring
me, it hurt.
“Then
don’t walk,” the doctor said. “Sit on the sofa and enjoy your pregnancy.”
I obeyed his
orders.
Later
during an ultrasound, I was asked if I wanted to know the sex of the baby. I
agreed since I just knew I was having a boy.
“It’s
a girl!” the technician said as he pointed to the grainy image I already
cherished.
The
ultrasound also revealed that the baby would be born in late October, close to
Halloween.
“Oh,
my daughter will not be born on that day,” I said. Every other day of the year,
my children had access to costumes and candy, but I didn’t like the scary
celebrations associated with Halloween.
“Don’t
you think that God has a sense of humor?” my doctor said. “Wouldn’t it be great
if He redeemed that day for you? Every day is holy unto the Lord.”
When
I woke up in labor on October 31, 1994, I didn’t care about the calendar. It
was my little girl’s birthday and I knew that for the rest of my life, every
October 31st would be anticipated and celebrated with pink balloons
and cake!
The
birthday of my fifth child, Victoria Grace, is always special. Her life is a
daily reminder that God not only spared my life when I was diagnosed with
leukemia, but He added another beautiful life to our family.
Our
birthdays are special, too. Regardless of which day it falls on, or how many we’ve
had, I pray that we all celebrate the years God gives us with a life that
honors Him.
Ronny
may be reached at rmichel@rtconline.com.
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